Every member agrees to these when they join. They're the short version of our full terms and conditions - what actually matters day to day.
Treat other members the way you'd want to be treated. No harassment, personal attacks, hate speech, racism or threats of violence, ever - regardless of who starts it.
Use real, recent photos of yourself and an honest description. Impersonating someone else, using stolen photos, or deliberately misleading other members isn't tolerated and gets accounts removed.
Don't post your phone number, email address, home address or other identifying contact details in your profile or public comments - keep the conversation on-site until you're ready to share more, and only with someone you trust.
Every member must be at least 18. Photos or descriptions involving anyone under 18 - including old photos of yourself - are not permitted under any circumstances and are reported to the relevant authorities.
Adult content between consenting adults is what this site is for. Content that's illegal, exploitative, promotes violence, or targets someone's race, religion, gender or sexuality is removed, and repeat posting can end your membership.
Don't use your profile or messages to advertise, sell, or run any kind of scam. Any content designed to mislead or manipulate other members results in immediate account termination.
Everything you post and every interaction on the site must comply with UK law. We cooperate with law enforcement where required, including on matters of exploitation and trafficking - see our anti-trafficking statement.
If another member breaks these guidelines, use the report or block tools on their profile, or contact customer support directly. Reports are confidential and reviewed by our team.
Report it and our moderation team will review it - see our safety policy for how that works.
